Icons For Understanding Eastern and Western Cultures - PART ONE
If you liked part one of this series, feel free to take a peek at the other two.
Icons For Understanding Eastern and Western Cultures - Part Two
Icons For Understanding Eastern and Western Cultures - Part Three
NOTE: I would really like to give credit for these icons. I tried to do an Internet search on this research project, but I wasn’t able to come up with anyone to credit them to online. They were created by Liu Young, who was born in China and educated in Germany.
UPDATE: One of my readers was kind enough to send me Liu Young’s website address. If you’re interested in learning more, please visit the author’s webpage.
Please remember the commentary I provide under each caption do not reflect the opinions of the author. They are my own personal observations.
I just received the following icons from a friend via email. I couldn’t resist sharing with my readers, as I know many of you are living abroad in Asia and will be able to relate to most of them in some way or another. There are 24 icons in total, which I will post over the next few days.
My comments focus on the relationships between North American and Chinese cultural observations, since this is where my experience lies.
Perception is key here. I’m really interested in your thoughts and comments, especially from my Asian readers.
BLUE —— Westerner
RED —— Chinese
ANGER
When Westerners are unhappy, our emotions can be easily perceived through body language, facial expression and tone.
In Asia, it’s a little more difficult to tell how someone is feeling. Think about how often you hear what you think are two people arguing when in reality, they are just chatting loudly. In Western societies, we equate loud voices with anger and confrontation.
I’m sure many of us can relate to being angry at a given situation and having a Chinese boss smile and smile and smile as you rage on like a lunatic. The benefit of dealing with situations like these is learning how to react to stressful situations with less of an emotional outburst.
MAKING CONTACTS
Westerners tend to have very linear relationships, whereas Asians tend to have more circular relationships.
DEFINITION OF BEAUTY
In China and Taiwan, the whiter your skin, the more beautiful you are. In North America, the darker your skin, the more beautiful you are.
Case in point.
In Asia, most beauty products contain some sort of whitening agent for the skin. Women are obsessed with covering up. They wear hats, carry umbrellas on hot days and wear long sleeves to the beach. Most of my Chinese girlfriends wouldn’t be caught dead in the blistering hot sun at the beach.
In North America, many skin products are designed to produce a beautiful, golden tan. Think self-tanning lotions, bronzers and tinted moisterizers or hours and hours of sunbathing.
ELDERLY IN DAY-TO-DAY LIFE
The first thing that struck me as different when I moved to China were the number of seniors I’d see on the streets with young children. I thought it was really special to see Grandma and Grandpa out with the young ‘uns for the day. I still think it’s terrific.
Seniors in Eastern societies remain an integral part of the family. While sons and daughters are off making a living, Grandma and Grandpa stay at home to raise the grandchildren.
The role of a grandparent in North America is just as important, but an emphasis on independence also plays a major part in how seniors live their lives. The majority of seniors in Western societies are often on their own by their own choice. It’s uncommon to hear of parents living with their children.
IN THE RESTAURANT
Anyone who has ever been in a restaurant in Asia will surely chuckle at this one.
ME
Westerners think in terms of me, me, me. Most Asians think of themselves as part of a larger sum.
HANDLING OF PROBLEMS
No doubt this one frustrates all Westerners living in Asia. I’m sure we frustrate Asians to no end with our own problem solving techniques.
Westerners tend to take the most direct approach to problem solving. Problem solving in Asia is a bit more complex. Often the most direct approach is ignored. Sometimes the problem is never dealt with.
I laughed. So true. Only those of us here can truly understand.
Pretty cool post. I’d say pretty accurate as well.
Carrie: “Anyone who has ever been in a restaurant in Asia will surely chuckle at this one.”
Huh?! Carrie, you obviously have never been over here in Montréal! Once you go to one of the trendy hipster spots (or even the place for mainstreamers to go, in some ways those one are louder). If it was Toronto, you would be 100% correct!
I should qualify that. It depends on the mood of the place. Montréal restaurant/café goers modulate their volume and speech according to what the atmosphere is like. It isn’t a perfect science. It isn’t always harmonious. But where are things harmonious, anywhere, for that matter?
As for you other ones icons. Very precise. Except the old people one. Except you say old people are important here in the west… What??? C’mon.
We just lock them up in old age homes, clinics. etc. That makes me tempted (for selfish reasons, mind you, not that I’ve taken care of any old people in my lifetime) to move back to Taiwan. Honestly. More than tempted; more than likely, really.
A particularly horrifying fictionalization of life from an old person’s perspective (not less real-feeling and horrifying and so-forth, for all its fictional medium) is to be found in the novel, I will have and will, from the time I first read it for the rest of my life, called Cloud Atlas, by David Mitchell. It weirdly combines historical novel with thriller with science fiction and more. Somehow it feels more real than anything I’ve read. Not just the section about the old publisher, but the novel as a whole David Mitchell is a Briton living in Japan, by the way. What is it about these writers, like Pico Iyer, Mitchel, Ishiguro (who is English but came from Japan when he was five. I think the most interesting writers are often often of the exile/migrant/migrating/refugee variety. Right now, I am once again, reading more of Naipaul (The Return of Eva Peron).
Pretty good icons! I liked them. They disclose western-eastern differences very precisely..
Some good ones in there. Not sure about the ME thing. People in Taiwan often seem completely oblivious to others around them.
I’ve always thought that old people get a bad deal in Taiwan. They are pretty much expected to take care of the grandkids out of financial necessity. It’s not just a spot of baby-sitting; they’re acting as full-time surrogate parents. In many cases the actual parents are off in another city slaving away on a cubicle farm. My neighbour, for instance, takes care of her granddaughter while her daughter works in Taipei Monday to Friday. She comes down for the weekend. The grandmother is really forced into it because the alternative is to spend a fortune on daycare. This kind of arrangement is very common in Taiwan. It’s not quite as rosy a situation as Westerners sometimes make out.
So, Naruwan, would you rather spent bleak day after bleak day staring at the walls of an old age home and being FORCED into inactivity. If that’s what you want or prefer, well, you’re free to want and volunteer for that.
Not for me, thanks. I’d prefer to have importance. Even if it is “slaving away” as you say. Actually, it seems that the grandparents insist on taking the kids, and make a big stink if the parents want to change the parameters. In my experience, anyway. I won’t go into details, for obviously good reasons.
I love the smile = anger. I do this from time to time, and it works wonders on the other side of the conversation. The redder their face gets, the more I smile. hehe
Great post.
This was so true! Being a witness to different cultures and their different approach to every day life is my favorite part of world travels
Loved the icons!
Author’s webpage
http://www.yangliudesign.com/
Mark,
Thank you very very much. I’ll be sure to write a follow up post to give credit. Thanks again!
Hi there,
They are very good icons! Right now, I’m working as a Cultural Orientation Trainer in several refugee camp throughout Thailand. This is so great for my students to understand the culture differences between the east and the west before they resettle to the third countries.
You said that there are 24 icons in total, but in this website, there are only 12 icons. Can you send them to me please? The refugees here need you help! My email is SweetMia07@hotmail.com
Thanks
Mia
being a Singaporean-Chinese working and living in Australia, this is so true! thank you for posting this.. it’s Fantastic!!
absolutely hilarious!!
I find the icons really useful. Great for me to run my workshop for international students. Pictures speak so much louder than words. Well done Liu Young. Like, Mia, I would also like to receive all the 24 icons via my website: kim_hwang2301@yahoo.com.au
Thanks,
Fee
Hi Mia and Fee,
There are three articles in this series. You can find them under the same title with the labels, Part 1, Part 2 and Part 3. You can also visit the author’s website if you’d like more information. Thanks for stopping by.
Nice one.Its a truth as well.
I DON’T AGREE IN THE RESTAURANT,HANDLING OF PROBLEMS,QUEUING TO WAIT AND TRAVELING .IF YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT CHINESE,YOU SUPPOSE TO CHANGE YOUR TITLE INSTEAD OF USING ASIAN. ARE YOU REALLY SPENDING TIME KNOWING
OTHER COUNTRIES IN ASIA?
Elica,
Could you tell me why you disagree?
I’ve lived in China and Taiwan. That’s why I used the term Chinese instead of Asia when I made my observations. I’ve also spent quite a bit of time in Thailand, Malaysia, Japan, Korea, and Indonesia.